Thursday, October 3, 2019

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To keep yourself and others safe, please consider the following:
  • Use the buddy system and watch out for each other.
  • Trust your instincts. If you feel unsafe, get to a safe place and call for help.
  • Don’t feel obligated to do anything you don’t want to do. “I don’t want to” is always a good enough reason.
  • If you are interested in proceeding physically with an intimate partner, seek permission and do not proceed without an explicit and enthusiastic "yes" from your partner.
  • Do not make any assumptions about what your partner is interested in doing sexually. Define your limits and make your intentions known.
  • Remember that prior sexual interactions with someone do not automatically give permission for future sexual interactions with that person. Consent is required each and every time.
  • Understand that consent to one sexual act does not imply consent to other sexual acts and that consent can be withdrawn at any time.
  • Get your own drinks; don’t let someone continually fill your cup or leave your drink unattended.
  • Be aware that some people may encourage excessive alcohol consumption in order to take advantage of others sexually.
  • The ultimate responsibility for preventing sexual assault lies with those who would commit it. Take responsibility for your own actions and don't blame those hurt by sexual assault and other forms of interpersonal violence.
  • If you feel afraid, call 911 or University Police at 864-294-2111, or utilize transportation resources such SafeRide or a Furman Police escort.